Ok I feel so totally humiliated; I just want to cry my gf and sister made me get a really short hair cut?

I just feel soooooo bad and I told my mom that I'm not feeling well and want to just sleep. I told my gf that I don't feel well and she dropped me off at my house after taking me to a ';barbershop'; for a haircut. It was so humiliating. All these men looking at me like some kind of freak while she gave the barber instructions on how to cut my hair. My younger sister (16 yrs old) went along too to and she got into the act. I saw all the face of these men and their sons staring at me.





I had beautiful longish hair in a shag. I usually went to this salon to get my hair cut. The women in the salon treated me really nice and know how I like my hair. Sometimes they throw in a free service like a facial and it has something in it to retard the growth of facial hair which I really like. I like to get a manicure and pedicure while there (they do more then just hair lol lol) but being that I;m a boy (19yrs old) I usually get a light pink or clear. Sometimes pink for my toes and clear for my fingers.





My gf says I have to try to look and act more masculine. She and I love each other and we both plan to get married after we graduate from college (about 3 years). She is a Christian and I recently joined her church after we got back together. I knew her from middle school and high school and she was my only friend then her parents moved away. She's back in my life and I love her madly and want to be her wife. Anyway I really want to sleep now cause she's picking me up in the morning to go to Church. We spend most of the morning there and then participate with the young adult group in various activities in the afternoon.





Should I tell them how humiliated I feel. It was a horrible day!!Ok I feel so totally humiliated; I just want to cry my gf and sister made me get a really short hair cut?
Yes! Tell them exactly how you feel and why.





If your girlfriend's already acting like your mother, be afraid. It will get worse. She's got some control issues that really need to be dealt with before taking that walk down the aisle. ';Speak now or forever hold your peace'; isn't just a cliche.





And who is she to say how you should be, look or act? That's up to you. If she doesn't like the merchandise, she doesn't have to buy it.





Talk to your minister and your friends about it. Their views may help you reach a conclusion.





As for your hair, I'm sorry that you went through so much trauma. Fortunately, it will grow back.Ok I feel so totally humiliated; I just want to cry my gf and sister made me get a really short hair cut?
YOUR A FAG!!!!! omg they gave you a bad look, are you gonna die? holy crap!! wat a babby!!!!! get a life, beautiful longish hair?? dude, beautiful? are you kidding?
you might hurt her feelings.


dont worry your hair will grow back.
Chill out hair grows back
I think you need to step back and think about your true sexuality.


It is fine to go to a salon and get your hair done. Why did you let these 2 girls dictate what was done to you. But why would you be so upset at going to a barber and getting your haircut like a boy. You are a boy. Are you sure you're not gay. It sounds like you like this girl as a friend and feel like you want to be together just to have a friend.


Did you realize that when you wrote the sentence she's back in my life and i love her madly and '; want to be her wife!!! '; Think about it.